I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment. He hasn't proposed and instead of saving for a ring he is going to use the money to travel to go to his friend's wedding. It really can be that simple. But a recommendation to somebody who isn't in love yet and doesn't have to live with it What are the biggest problems that occur because of the time issues And how are you dealing with this as a couple. The first year is mostly research with regular hours followed by those daunting 3 years. I wish I could let go of our love as easily as he has, but I just can't.




Other guys I've dated in a similar situation have just asked me to put the keys in the mailbox when I leave though. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true. As a general authority I knew, now deceased, told me in the mid-eightiesвIf you find a good man who is not LDS, marry him. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. God knows the big picture. Do you know anyone working in medicine or in the healthcare field. This is my own personal opinion. Don't try to fill the silence and rush to say something like "but I know you are super busy.
They therefore have a high standard to work toward. I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. He had no idea what he was getting himself into. Just as secular marriages have problems, so do temple marriages.
I know we don't know each other, but it seems like we all share a commonality that connects us all very deeply. And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening. I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago. What a bozza topic. To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised. In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him. You arent "giving up" anything.