Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. Whether you're a master at dirty talk or a total newbie , there's one surefire way to make anything you say to your partner 10 times sexier: Whisper it. You don't have to be describing the sex position you want to put your partner in, either.
2. When you feel stuck in a rut.
1. What your sexual limits are.
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